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MAY-8-07
14:23:54
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Forum: Serious Discussion for Christian Singles
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Nacee
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Your Ex sounds like he is a maninulator and user. And, Sweetie, he is playing you like a violin. If this is a "playing house" situation, he has got the best of both worlds. He can run around, because he isn't committed by marriage. Yet, if he doesn't score with anyone when he is running around, he can come home to you. He is using you. Period. End of story. Kick him to the curb.
I suspect that you are not over your Ex. That is why things didn't "work out" with the other guys you dated. Subconsciously, you are comparing these guys to the Ex. Why? He is lying to you, cheating on you (and if you suspect it, 10 will get you 20 that you are right), and probably not treating you nicley unless he wants something. Kick him to the curb and give a decent man a chance.
Do you really want to be with someone that has to prove how strong he is by burning himself with a cigarette? Not to mention, he did this when he was at a bar. I'll bet he wasn't sober. KICK HIM TO THE CURB!!!
I know how hard getting over someone you love can be. I spent way too much time trying to convince myself that I was over him, instead of giving it over to God and letting Him heal me. Leave it at the feet of your Heavenly Father. He is the ONLY one that can get you over the guy. And He will! He will also lead you to a good and righteous man. A man that is strong in the Lord, not one that is strong in self serving ways. You are a daughter of The King. A Princess. You deserve a Prince, not a toad. And this particular toad will not turn into a prince no matter how many times you kiss him.
You will need God to help you be strong when you finally do kick him to the curb. Your Ex will say hurtful things, beg, plead, whatever it takes to stay in your life. THIS IS NOT LOVE! He will react like this because you are taking away his good life (having it both ways). Don't give in. Stand firm and strong in God. Remember, YOU ARE A PRINCESS!!!
If you need to, you can contact me through my profile. I'm praying for you, friend. Hang in there. And one last thing, KICK HIM TO THE CURB!!!
God bless,
nacee
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MAY-4-07
0:25:9
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Forum: Serious Discussion for Christian Singles
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I think if I were in your shoes I would know what I have to do. The sad reality of human nature is we will do more to avoid pain then we will do to gain pleasure. Being alone is painful and I understand you wanting to end that pain. I pray that you will have the strength to do whatever God will lead you to do.
Micheal
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APR-29-07
14:1:3
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Ms112701
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You divorced the man after twenty years of marriage. There was obviously a reason. Now you think that he is cheating on you, so I would think that stories about a burn on his arm are the least of your worries. Put the ex in the past where he belongs and move forward to a better life for yourself and your daughter.
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APR-29-07
7:47:27
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Eusebius
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Dating your ex-husband? Are you really just dating him, or are you really playing house off and on? If you are doing that, then try limiting the relationship to just dating. Deprive him of the privileges of "marriage without responsibility" and see how long he sticks around. If he is using you, then things will sour pretty fast. It seems pointless to confront him. How many times did you do that when you were married and what good did it do?
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APR-26-07
13:46:40
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I was married to one guy for twenty years then, just two years ago our marriage fell apart. I will take my own blame for this too. I started dating after my devorce, but nothing seem to work out with any of the guys I dated. I started dating my exhusband Christmas of this year (2007) I think he is lying and cheating on me which when we were married I believe he did lye occassionally, but I NEVER EVER once thought about him cheating. He had a burn on his arm and I asked him how he had gotten burned he said from a fire he had burning trash. The next day I was talking to my daughter and she said that her dad was joking around and told her that he had gotten burned by putting a cigarette out on himself at a bar when he was trying to prove that he was the "strongest guy" in the bar. Now that I think about it that burn is a perfect circle such as a Cigarette burn. I would think that a burn from trash would not be in a perfect circle. Any advice? should I confront him with his story he told my daughter and ask him about it?
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